During the past few months, my wife's 17 year old niece (Tasha) has had to live with us due to unforeseen circumstances.
Which was fine, even though she had to sleep on a fold up bed in our living room.
However, I never fully understood how lazy, untidy and generally messy she can be (I am not saying this because she is a teenager, as I now other teenagers who are now where near as bad), and this did start to put a strain within our household.
To add another issue to the situation, her boyfriend, who seemed ok, turned out to be a real ignorant git, speaking or saying hello to you as and when it suits.
One example of this was between Christmas and new year I had gone out in the car, and when I had come back, the house was full of people visiting, including my wife's niece and her partner.
This was fine, but what pissed me off was when I got in, I went straight into the dining room, which is where the household computer is, and saw HIM on my computer (which so far was ok, as tasha and him were moving out and were surfing the net for beds and stuff), but when I said HELLO, he said nothing. He did not even turn round to acknowledge me.
This pissed me off…he is in my house, on my computer, the least I would expect is a HELLO.
This is one of many instances where both of them have taken the piss with my generosity and kindness, which is why, now they have moved out to their flat, that I am a lot more happier and content.
YAA – F***ING - WHOOOOO
She still comes to our house on occaision, but he does not, which is good, because he is as welcome as the Black Death.
A side note to this is also my wife's daughter, who also got to the point where she could not stand tasha's boyfriend and moaned continuously when she knew he was coming to our house.
She too, is a lot happier these days.